CONTACT ETIQUETTE
SWINGING SCENE
At Fun 4 Adults we are aware that many of you will be fairly new or brand new to the swinging scene and that your first time can be quite daunting. To assist you to be well prepared for your first couple of meetings, we have put together some guidelines for you to follow.
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SWINGING COMMUNITY
Please respond to all emails you receive from other members.
Many of them will have spent a lot of time deciding what to say to you
so that you will notice them and it is only courteous to at least acknowledge
their interest in you.
A short note saying something along the lines of "Thank you for your
response, but you do not match what I am currently looking for, better
luck next time" will at least let the respondent know they have failed.
Many members check their emails regularly hoping to receive a reply and
in the swinging community, bad news is better than no news.
If you are responding to an advert always be polite. Telling the advertiser what you think of their advert is positive as it will help them to improve their advert and meet more people. Remember that the advertiser is usually looking for something or someone in particular so telling them how you will meet their requirements will help them make the decision to meet you.
If you enclose a picture please show your face. Most people like to see the person, rather than a piece of genitalia (at the end of the day, one cock can look very similar to another!). If they like the look of you, they will then ask for another picture, a nude one if they want it. (Some people do want nude pictures from the start, but they will usually say so in their advert).
Keep the language clean, match your response to the ad. Don't go straight in with a hardcore letter.
If you are turned down by an advertiser, don't keep contacting them. You are not going to make any friends by being a nuisance or abusive. Just move on to the next advertiser.
Above all, have fun! That's what it's all about.
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When you actually meet someone or attend your first swingers party, it is important that you make an effort to look your best. No-one will take you seriously if you do not make an effort. Wearing sexy clothes will make you stand out and will make you feel sexy. Visit our online sex shop to find the right outfit for you and if you are feeling cheeky, why not take a few sex toys along on your date?
When you arrive at the party, it is usual behaviour to bring a small present for the hosts such as a bottle of wine or flowers. Your hosts will have worked very hard to make the night a success and it is only right that you should show your appreciation. On occasions, you will be invited to swingers parties that take place in people homes, when this happens ensure that you treat the venue with respect.
If you do not find someone at a party, don't worry! Just make friends and your time will cum! Many couples swinging for the first time end up having sex together (and not with anyone else) at their first swingers party. Having sex where others can watch can be a real turn on and making out in a hot tub in front of others is often a good introduction and ice breaker to the swinging scene.
